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Perjalanan Hidup Obama & Keluarganya

Postby admin » Fri Aug 22, 2008 3:49 pm

agak panjang - 5 seri, patut dibaca untuk mengetahui sikap hidup Obama, ibunya, ayahnya, ayah tiri Indonesianya ....

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Foto: Lolo Sutoro: Bapak tiri Obama Jr - bapak yang baik dan sabar
Ann Dunham yang sebagian besar hidupnya dihabiskan di Indonesia, bayi Maya Sutoro dan Barry Sutoro yang kemudian balik nama ke Barrack Obama Jr
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Postby admin » Thu Aug 28, 2008 11:09 am

Kesan pribadi setelah membaca tulisan koran ini secara kilat:

Stanley Ann Dunham: Namanya Stanley, nama laki laki krn Stanley ayahnya menginginkan anak laki laki.

Ibu Obama, wanita idealis. Penuh impian. Saat baru 17 tahun bertemu pria Kenya yang jauh lebih tua (belum tahu kalau si pria sudah punya isteri dan anak). Percaya penuh dan setelah hamil 3 bulan dinikahi Obama Sr.
Pernikahan tanpa persetujuan orang tua dari kedua pihak. Kemduian ditinggal begitu saja oleh Obama Sr dan mencoba menyusul ke Boston tempat dimana Obama Sr mendapat beasiswa untuk meraih Ph D dari Harvard. Ketemu dan berpisah lagi untuk selamanya (mungkin tahu akhirnya bhw Obama Sr sudah berkeluarga). Melanjutkan sekolah sampai Ph D sambil kerja di Indonesia sbg pekerja sosial.

Madelyn Dunham: nenek Obama Jr - wanita yang praktis, berbakat dan berhasil sbg wanita karier. Cuma lulusan SMA, mulai kerja di pool sekretariat di bank. VP Bank of Hawaii. Mungkin wanita ini yang sebetulnya membiayai sekolah Obama.Stanley Ann karena hidup perkawinannya cerai 2x katanya pernah hidup dari food stamp.
Stanley Dunham; kakek Obama - kurang berhasil dalam pekerjaannya. Jualan asuransi dan Obama kecil mengalami sendiri betapa susahnya si kakek ini berusaha mencari uang.

Barrack Obama Sr: Dalam hubungan dengan Stanley Ann, Obama Kurang jujur - tidak mau mengatakan bahwa dia sebetulnya sudah beristeri. Tokoh yang berpibadi karismatik, egoistik & sangat cerdas, a leader in waiting for Kenya tapi sayang dari suku yang lawan dari sukunya pemimpin Kenya waktu itu. Orang yang amat cerdas secara akademis tapi hidupnya berakhir tragis akibat kecelakaan mobil. Meninggalkan 3 isteri. Anak anaknya kecuali Obama Jr kelihatannya tidak begitu terurus & berpendidikan, Berita terakhir menyebutkan ada adik Obama yang hidup bak gelandangan. aru.


Lolo Sutoro: bapak yang kelihatannya simpatik. Mengajarkan Obama filsafat hdup.
Maya Sutoro: ??? sedikit sekali info yang ditulis
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Postby admin » Thu Aug 28, 2008 11:11 am

sbg perbandingan - tulisan Julia Suryakusuma yang kenal pribadi dengan Stanley Anne, ibu Obama di Jakarta Post:

Obama for President ... of Indonesia

Opinion and Editorial - November 29, 2006

Julia Suryakusuma, Melbourne

The Oct. 23 issue of TIME featured Barack Obama, the new star of the Democratic Party. He embodies much that is good about the U.S. Inclusive and seeking to stand above race, religion, class and party politics, he preaches a message of unity, speaking for almost everyone -- black, white, liberal, conservative, immigrant, native-born, women and men. He cultivates this image of being a politician above party ideology and is admired and respected by Democrats and Republicans alike.

Obama's rise to (political) prominence has been meteoric, from virtually unknown Illinois legislator to "a phenomenon that we've never seen before", likened to Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King and Bill Clinton. He's currently the sole African-American in the U.S. Senate and only the third in the past 100 years. He's expected to run for the presidency in 2008, and if he wins, he would become the first black American president. Wow.

So what is the appeal of this is this young, 45 year-old, charismatic wunderkind, a cross between pastor, professor and rock star? Fundamentally, Obama seems to address a long-held need among Americans for integrity, faith, authenticity, a sense of purpose, meaning and someone who sees the bigger picture -- a feeling that someone out there cares and is listening to them.

I read about Obama's life and read his speeches, with a whole gamut of emotions: Fascination, wonder, admiration, but also much sadness, love and longing. You see, Obama's mother, Ann Dunham, was one of my closest friends. I say "was" because she died of ovarian cancer in 1995, aged only 52. As I write this column today on her birthday, Nov. 27, she would have turned 63.

Ann was an anthropologist. Her doctorate research was on cottage industries in Java and she had a deep love for this country. I had been friends with her since 1981, when I was guest-editor of Prisma, a social-science journal, and had asked her to write an essay about village women in Indonesia. She ended up not writing it, but we became very close friends. There were very few details of each other's lives we did not know and we consulted each other on so many things. More than five years after she died, I still had imaginary conversations with her.

Ann was one of the kindest, most warm-hearted, sensitive, generous people I have known. She was also funny, intelligent, knowledgeable, well-read and had a sunny, engaging personality. When I remember her, it's always her big smile that appears in my mind.

I knew Maya, her daughter with Sutoro, Ann's Indonesian husband, since Maya was 6, and I had met Berry (as Ann called Barack) at Ann's South Jakarta home when he came visiting. He was then a Harvard law student and even skinnier than he is now. I remember her intense pride when she told me in 1990 that Berry had been elected president of the Harvard Law Review, the first ever African-American in that position.

Berry's father was a Kenyan politician, a Muslim (although later an atheist) who died in a car accident in 1982. I didn't know Berry's father, but Ann's stories indicated that Berry had inherited the best of both his parents' qualities and skills. Perhaps Berry got the political acumen and rhetorical skills for which he is now famous from his father, but I certainly see his mother in his compassion, warmth and concern for others, qualities that set him apart from other politicians.

As I sit here writing today, I wish more than ever that Ann were still alive. I cannot imagine her excitement and pride to see her son named as the possible next president of the United States. And I think she would also see Berry as a great inspiration for Indonesia, her adopted home. The dilemma Obama faces, a choice between communal-sectarian and policy-based politics is one that Indonesians also face.

Obama has identified the U.S. as a country that has divided sharply along racial and religious lines which politicians exploit for their narrow power interests. His "Call to Renewal" speech about faith and politics, delivered on June 28 this year, could have been about Indonesia.

He says, "given the increasing diversity of America's population, the dangers of sectarianism have never been greater. Whatever we once were, we are no longer just a Christian nation; we are also a Jewish nation, a Muslim nation, a Buddhist nation, a Hindu nation, and a nation of nonbelievers".

Acknowledging the need for faith in politics, Obama also exhorts people to reconcile faith with a modern, pluralistic democracy. "Democracy demands that the religiously-motivated translate their concerns into universal, rather than religion-specific, values. It requires that their proposals be subject to argument, and amenable to reason ... Politics depends on our ability to persuade each other of common aims based on a common reality. It involves the compromise, the art of what's possible".

Solving the myriad problems facing pluralist nations such as the U.S. and Indonesia will requires changes to government policy, but it also needs committed political will. Obama, while running for higher office, acknowledges that government has its limitations, and that the basis for real change is within ourselves.

Even if I had no connection to Obama, I would be moved by his rhetoric and hopeful, as so many people are, that he make true his words if he is elected. So I wish him the best of luck for the presidential race in 2008, especially if he runs with Hillary Clinton. But if Obama fails, perhaps he might consider running for president of Indonesia? After all, he spent four years of his life here in the country that his mother loved so much.

Berry, we need someone like you!

The writer is the author of Sex, Power and Nation. She can be contacted at jsuryakusuma@mac.com and jskusuma@dnet.net.id.
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Postby admin » Fri Aug 29, 2008 6:50 pm

menjawab pertanyaan: kalau Obama tinggal terus di Indonesia apakah dia bisa jadi Presiden Indonesia?

Yah nggak bisa, tidak lahir di Indonesia. Lahirnya di Hawaii

Kalaupun UU diubah, apakah bisa Obama menjadi capres?

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di dokumen pendaftaran SD Katolik Fransiskus disebut Barry Soetoro beragama Islam.

Foto kedua orang tua Barack Obama & foto Obama bersama kakek & neneknya saya tambahkan disini.
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Postby admin » Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:38 pm

ini tulisan yang menarik tentang Obama, 18 tahun yang lalu dan dimuat ulang di LA Times:
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Barack Obama, Harvard Law Review editor, March 19, 1990


Barack Obama's Law Personality:
Harvard Law Review's first black president plans a life of public service. His multicultural background gives him unique perspective.


By Tammerlin Drummond
Times Staff Writer

Barack Obama stares silently at a wall of fading black-and-white photographs in the muggy second-floor offices of the Harvard Law Review. He lingers over one row of solemn faces, his predecessors of 40 years ago.

All are men. All are dressed in dark-colored suits and ties. All are white.

It is a sobering moment for Obama, 28, who in February became the first black to be elected president in the 102-year history of the prestigious student-run law journal.

The post, considered the highest honor a student can attain at Harvard Law School, almost always leads to a coveted clerkship with the U.S. Supreme Court after graduation and a lucrative offer from the law firm of one's choice.

Yet Obama, who has gone deep into debt to meet the $25,000-a-year cost of a Harvard Law School education, has left many in disbelief by asserting that he wants neither.

"One of the luxuries of going to Harvard Law School is it means you can take risks in your life," Obama said recently. "You can try to do things to improve society and still land on your feet. That's what a Harvard education should buy-enough confidence and security to pursue your dreams and give something back."

After graduation next year, Obama says he probably will spend two years at a corporate law firm, then look for community work. Down the road, he plans to run for public office.

The son of a Kenyan economist and an American anthropologist, Obama is a tall man with a quick, boyish smile whose fellow students rib him about his trademark tattered blue jeans.

"I come from a lot of worlds and I have had the unique opportunity to move through different circles," Obama said. "I have worked and lived in poor black communities and I can translate some of their concerns into words that the larger society can embrace."

His own upbringing is a blending of diverse cultures. Born in Hawaii, where his parents met in college, Obama was named Barack (blessed in Arabic) after his father. The elder Obama was among a generation of young Africans who came to the United States to study engineering, finance and medicine, skills that could be taken back home to build a new, strong Africa. In Hawaii, he married Obama's mother, a white American from Wichita, Kan.

Two years later, Obama's parents separated and he moved to a small village outside Jakarta, Indonesia, with his mother, an anthropologist. There, he spent his boyhood playing with the sons and daughters of rice farmers and rickshaw drivers, attending an Indonesian-speaking school, where he had little contact with Americans.

Every morning at 5, his mother would wake him to take correspondence classes for fear he would forget his English.

It was in Indonesia, Obama said, where he first became aware of abject poverty and despair.

"It left a very strong mark on me living there because you got a real sense of just how poor folks can get," he said. "You'd have some army general with 24 cars and if he drove one once then eight servants would come around and wash it right away. But on the next block, you'd have children with distended bellies who just couldn't eat."

After six years in Indonesia, Obama was sent back to the United States to live with his maternal grandparents in Hawaii in preparation for college. It was then that he began to correspond with his father, a senior economist for the Kenyan finance ministry who recounted intriguing tales of an African heritage that Obama knew little about.

Obama treasured his father's tales of walking miles to school, using a machete to hack a path through the elephant grass-the legends and traditions of the Luo tribe, a proud people who inhabited the shores of Lake Victoria.

He still carries a passbook that belonged to his grandfather, an herbalist who was the first family member to leave the small Kenyan village of Alego, move to the city and don Western clothes.

"He was a cook and he used to have to carry this passbook to work for the English," Obama recalls. "At the age of 46 it had this description of him that said, `He's a colored boy, he's responsible and he's a good cook.' "

Two generations later, at the most widely respected legal journal in the country, the grandson of the cook is giving the orders.

Yet some of Obama's peers question the motives of this second-year law student. They find it puzzling that despite Obama's openly progressive views on social issues, he has also won support from staunch conservatives. Ironically, he has come under the most criticism from fellow black students for being too conciliatory toward conservatives and not choosing more blacks to other top positions on the law review.

"He's willing to talk to them (the conservatives) and he has a grasp of where they are coming from, which is something a lot of blacks don't have and don't care to have," said Christine Lee, a second-year law student who is black. "His election was significant at the time, but now it's meaningless because he's becoming just like all the others (in the Establishment)."

Although some question what personal goals motivate Obama, his interest in social issues is deeply grounded.

At Occidental College in Los Angeles, Obama studied international relations and spent much of his time helping to organize anti-apartheid protests. In his junior year, he transferred to Columbia University, "more for what (New York City) had to offer than for the education," he said.

After graduating, Obama landed a job writing manuals for a New York-based international trade publication. Once his college loans were paid off, he took a $13,000-a-year job as director for the Developing Communities Project, a church-based social action group in Chicago.

There, he and a coalition of ministers set out to improve living conditions in poor neighborhoods plagued by crime and high unemployment. Obama helped form a tenants' rights group in the housing projects and established a job training program.

"I took a chance and it paid off," he said. "It was probably the best education that I've ever had."

After four years, Obama decided it was time to move on. He wanted to learn how to use the political system to effect social change. He set his sights on Harvard Law School, where he quickly distinguished himself as a top student. He was soon chosen through the strength of his writing and grades to serve as one of 80 student editors on the law review.

Unlike many peer-review professional journals, the law review is run solely by students. It is widely considered the major forum for current legal debate and consequently is watched closely by courts around the country.

In his second year at law school, Obama decided to run for law review president after a conversation with a black friend.

"I said I was not planning to run and he said, `Yes you are because that is a door that needs to be kicked down and you can take it down.' "

It was a marathon selection process, an arcane throwback to the early days of the review. The students editors deliberated behind closed doors from 8:30 a.m. until early the next day. The 19 anxious candidates took turns cooking breakfast, lunch and dinner for the selection committee, whose members emerged with a historic decision.

"Before I could say a word, another black student who was running just came up and grabbed me and hugged me real hard," Obama recalled. "It was then that I knew it was more than just about me. It was about us. And I am walking through a lot of doors that had already been opened by others."

But few students at the law review were prepared for the deluge of interview requests for Obama from newspapers, radio and television stations. Strange letters of congratulations began arriving.

Shortly after the elections, a package turned up at the law review office with no return address. Obama said he hesitated to open it because of the spree of recent mail bombings targeted at civil rights activists nationwide. When the package was finally opened, inside were two packages of dim sum, with no explanation. Some students made light of the media invasion, posting a memo titled "The Barack Obama Story, a Made for TV Movie, Starring Blair Underwood as Barack Obama."

Yet tensions were building. White students grumbled about the attention paid to Obama's race. Black students criticized him for not choosing more blacks for other top positions at the review. Caught in the cross-fire, Obama, who has a tendency toward understatement, downplayed his own achievements.

"For every one of me, there are thousands of young black kids with the same energies, enthusiasm and talent that I have who have not gotten the opportunity because of crime, drugs and poverty," he said. "I think my election does symbolize progress but I don't want people to forget that there is still a lot of work to be done."

Describing Obama, fellow students and professors point to a self-confidence tempered by modesty as one of his greatest attributes.

"He's very unusual, in the sense that other students who might have something approximating his degree of insight are very intimidating to other students or inconsiderate and thoughtless," said Laurence Tribe, a constitutional law professor. "He's able to build upon what other students say and see what's valuable in their comments without belittling them."

But what truly distinguishes Obama from other bright students at Harvard Law, Tribe said, is his ability to make sense of complex legal arguments and translate them into current social concerns. For example, Tribe said, Obama wrote an insightful research article showing how contrasting views in the abortion debate are a direct result of cultural and sociological differences.

As law review president, Obama is the last person to edit student articles, as well as longer pieces by accomplished legal scholars. The review publishes eight times a year and receives about 600 free-lance articles each year.

Referring to his fellow students at the review, whom he edits, he said: "These are the people who will be running the country in some form or other when they graduate. If I'm talking to a white conservative who wants to dismantle the welfare state, he has the respect to listen to me and I to him. That's the biggest value of the Harvard Law Review. Ideas get fleshed out and there is no party line to follow."

Obama spends 50 to 60 hours each week on law review business. The full-time volunteer job leaves little time for an additional 12 hours of class, plus homework. When it comes to choosing between the two, as it often does, Obama usually misses class.

One of Obama's most difficult tasks as editor in chief is keeping the peace amid the clashing egos of writers and editors.

"He is very, very diplomatic," said Radhika Rao, 24, a third-year law student from Lexington, Ind. "He is very outgoing and has a lot of experience in handling people, which stands him in good stead."

Tina Ulrich, 24, a third-year student, wrote an article for the review that went through several editors before her final draft landed on Obama's desk.

"When he sent it back, it had lots of tiny print all over it and I was just furious," she said. "My heart just sank. But it was accompanied by specific examples of how parts could be made better. He wound up getting an enthusiastic response from a very tired writer."

Outside the review, other blacks at Harvard are skeptical that Obama's appointment will change much at the Ivy League institution, where 180 out of 1,601 law students are black.

"While I applaud Obama's achievement, I guess I am not as hopeful for what this will mean for other blacks at Harvard," said Derrick Bell, the school's first black tenured law professor.

"There is a strange character to this black achievement. When you have someone that reaches this high level, you find that he is just deemed exceptional and it does not change society's view of all of the rest."

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Detik: Mbak Nun: Barry Nakal, Tapi Baik

Postby admin » Mon Sep 15, 2008 8:00 pm

Mbak Nun: Barry Nakal, Tapi Baik
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Jakarta - Mungkin sudah banyak masyarakat mahfum Calon Presiden Amerika Serikat Barack Obama pernah tinggal di Jakarta. Namun, tak banyak yang tahu seputar kehidupan Obama kecil di kawasan Menteng Dalam, Jakarta Selatan pada era 1970-an awal itu.

Mungkin hanya Lia (47) yang kerap dipanggil 'Mbak Nun' tahu kehidupan sehari-hari Obama kecil, saat tinggal bersama orangtua Capres AS itu di Jalan Haji Ramli, Menteng Dalam.

Mbak Nun yang saat itu berumur 12 tahun dijadikan pengasuh oleh salah seorang Manejer di PT Pertamina bernama Lolo Suntoro, yang tak lain adalah bapak tiri Barack Obama.

"Waktu itu saya kabur dari rumah orangtua di Sukabumi. Tiba-tiba ada tetangga yang bekerja sama Pak Lolo mengajak ke Jakarta dan diajak bekerja dan tinggal di rumah Pak Lolo," kata Lia alias Mbak Nun memulai kisahnya mengasuh Barack Obama di rumah kontrakannya di Jalan Selamatan No 9 RT 007 RW 02, Manggarai Selatan, Tebet, Jaksel, Jumat (12/9/2008).

Mbak Nun yang saat itu umurnya dua tahun lebih tua dari Barack Obama sering memanggil panggilan akrab anak majikannya itu dengan nama Barry. "Dulu saat baru datang, saya pikir Barry itu perempuan, nggak tahunya anak laki-laki, hitam lagi," kenangnya.

Mbak Nun pun lantas mengisahkan perjalanan hidupnya selama tiga tahun bergaul dengan Barry yang dikenalnya super badung dan nakal itu. Barry, lanjutnya, dengan kebandelannya kerap dihukum Any, ibu kandung Barack Obama.

"Kadang-kadang nakaknya begitu, kalau orang bule kan ngak boleh jajan sembarangan apalagi di luar rumah. Ibu Any sering mengingatkan agar hanya makan makanan yang ada di rumah. Tapi Barry malah sering meminta saya untuk belikan jajanan di luar, ya saya ngumpet-ngumpet dan nggak bilang-bilang beli jajanan yang lewat. Kalau ketahuan, kita dihukum berdua," ujarnya wanita kelahiran Cibadak, Sukabumi yang kini sudah memiliki tiga anak ini.

Kenakalan Obama lainnya, kata Mbak Nun, kalau sudah mandi sering mengguyur dirinya menjadi basah kuyup. "Itu kenakalan Barry kalau mau berangkat sekolah, dia kalau sudah mandi suka guyur air ke saya sampai basah kuyup, padahal saya sudah mandi dan pakai baju, ya akhirnya sering ganti baju lagi," ucapnya.

Mbak Nun selain mengasuh juga suka menemani Obama tidur di kamarnya. Sebab, Mbak Nun dan Obama memang tidur satu kamar dengan ranjang yang berbeda.

"Aduh, Barry itu kalau mau tidur, saya harus menemani main hingga dia tertidur, malah sampai larut malam. Kalau saya ketiduran ada aja jailnya," ungkapnya.

Yang menjengkelkan lagi, menurut Mbak Nun, Obama kecil suka sekali mengumpulkan bendera-bendera kecil, baik merah putih maupun bendera AS di kamarnya. "Dia suka memasang bendera-bendera kecil untuk 17an sama bendera AS. Di tempat tidur dia sama saya juga dipasangi. Kadang saya jengkel, karena nggak bisa tidur," cetusnya.

Any, ibu kandung Barack Obama memang mengajar anaknya cukup keras. Kadang sering menghukum Barack Obama, kalau tidak mau belajar, jajan sembarangan, apalagi kalau melawan omelannya.

"Kalau nggak mau belajar hukumannya sering dipukul pakai rotan gagang kemoceng, kadang paling sering dikurung di kamar mandi dan nggak dikasih makan," kenangnya.

Karena merasa kasihan, tak jarang Mbak Nun memberikan makanan lewat jendela kamar mandi tanpa sepengetahuan ibunya. Bila ketahuan, resikonya Mbak Nun harus menemani Obama di dalam kamar mandi hingga sore atau malam hari.

Kebiasaan buruk Obama kecil, bila dinasehati ibunya sering mengepalkan tangannya seperti orang mau meninju di belakang ibunya.

"Suatu kali dia begitu waktu dinasehatin, tapi waktu ngepelin tangannya, ngak tahunya ibu Any membalikkan badan dan langsung marah. Barry langsung dikurung di kamar mandi dan dikunci sampai ibu pulang sorenya," imbuhnya.

Walau nakal, sepengetahuan Mbak Nun, Barry termasuk orang yang baik. Terutama sering membagikan makanan kepada dirinya. Hanya saja kehidupan di sekolahnya, Mbak Nun mengaku tidak tahu, sebab hanya sopir yang mengatarkan.

"Kan nggak boleh, karena yang nganter cuma sopir. Kalau pulang sekolah, Barry juga dilarang abwa teman-temannya ke rumah," katanya lagi.
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Detik: Diledek 'Monyet Hitam', Barry Tertawa

Postby admin » Mon Sep 15, 2008 8:03 pm

Jakarta - Walau Barack Obama kecil nakal, namun di mata pengasuhnya, calon presiden AS ini terbilang baik. Bahkan saking baiknya, ketika sering diledek 'monyet hitam', oleh anak-anak pribumi, Obama membalas dengan tersenyum.

Panggilan bernada ejekan anak-anak Menteng Dalam saat itu dilontarkan karena Obama kecil sering memanjat pohon mangga di depan rumahnya. Saat memetik buah mangga, dia sering melemparkan kepada orang yang lewat, termasuk anak-anak sebayanya.

"Dia sering naik pohon mangga di sekitar rumah, dia sering memetik buahnya. Saya aja sering dipaksa manjat juga. Dia mungkin nakal saat itu melempari orang dengan buah. Sebenarnya, maksudnya untuk memberikan kepada orang-orang," kata Lia (47) alias Mbak Nun yang ditemui di kontrakannya di Jalan Selamatan No 9, RT 007 RW 02, Manggarai Selatan, Tebet, Jakarta Selatan, Jumat (12/9/2008).

Nah, karena dia sering melakukan itu, Obama kerap kali diledekin 'monyet hitam'. "Ya karena Barry (panggilan kecil Obama) nggak ngerti bahasa kita (Indonesia) dia ketawa aja," jelas Mbak Nun.

"Saya bilang jangan marah, karena memang kulitnya hitam. Dia nakal, tapi baik, dia memang sering berbahasa Inggris dengan ibunya," tandasnya.

Mbak Nun sendiri hanya mengetahui Obama kecil di lingkungannya di Menteng Dalam hanya memiliki dua orang teman yang sering main, yang satu anak orang bule dan satunya lagi orang Papua.

Dari pengakuan Mbak Nun pula, Obama kerap sering memecahkan barang-barang di dalam rumah. Pasalnya, anak-anak seumuran Obama, sering berlarian di dalam rumah.

Bila sudah begitu, Ibu Any (ibu kandung Obama) langsung menghukumnya.

"Banyak barang yang rusak sama Barry, dia sering lari-larian juga. Nakal banget untuk ukuran anak-anak, makanya tukang cuci dan pembantu lainnya juga sering marah sama dia," jelasnya.

Karena saking jengkelnya, Mbak Nun mengaku pernah membujuk Obama kecil untuk makan cabe rawit besar berwarna merah. Tidak pelak lagi, Obama pun menangis dan mukanya merah karena kepedasan.

"Saya ditanya sama Pak Lolo, kenapa Barry nangis. Saya bilang, saya kasih cabe rawit, abis Barry nakalnya nggak ketulungan, tapi Bapak nggak marah saat itu," kenangnya.(zal/irw)
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Postby admin » Sun Nov 16, 2008 12:33 pm

seperti saya duga juga. Obama Sr selain poligamis juga pemabuk ....

Kompas Jakarta - Minggu, 16 November 2008 | 15:10 WIB
Simon Saragih, http://www.kompas.com/

Di harian Inggris The Daily Mail, edisi 27 Januari 2007, muncul sebuah
tulisan berjudul "A drunk and a bigot- what the US Presidental hopeful
HASN'T said about his father...". Tulisan ini dibuat oleh Sharon
Churcher di London, Rob Crilly di Nairobi (Kenya) dan Gill Pringle di
Honolulu (AS).

Dalam bukunya The Dream from My Father, Obama tak menulis lebih rinci
soal ayahnya. Tak seromantis isi buku Obama, ayahnya ternyata seorang
pemabuk dan poligamis. Rasa ingin tahu soal ayah Obama mencuat setelah
Obama sendiri menjadi bakal calon presiden AS. Kemudian ketahuan bahwa
Barack Hussein mengabaikan anak dan istrinya. Obama mengatakan
hidupnya diwarnai dengan cacian rasialis. Ibunya yang kulit putih dan
ayahnya yang kulit hitam membuatnya terombang-ambing dalam dua warna itu.

Kenyataannya, ibu Barack Obama menceraikan Barack Hussein setelah
ketahuan bahwa Barack Hussein mempunyai istri yang ditinggalkan di
Kenya. Istri pertamanya sedang mengandung anak kedua saat Barack
Hussein berangkat ke AS.

Menurut harian Daily Mail, Barack Hussein menikah lagi dengan wanita
ketiga, yang ditemui justru saat ia masih serumah dengan ibu Barack
Obama. Seorang keponakan Barack Hussein kepada harian tersebut
mengatakan bahwa poligami adalah bagian dari budaya Afrika. Tak
sepenuhnya benar bahwa perceraian orangtua Barack Obama semata-mata
karena perbedaan warna kulit, seperti penuturan Obama.

Barack Hussein memulai hidup dengan keberuntungan karena bisa membaca
dan menulis. Namun, ia juga merasakan hidup tidak adil. Ayah dari
Barack Hussein, kakek Barack Obama, adalah tukang masak keluarga
Inggris di Kenya. Barack Hussein dijuluki anak di keluarga Inggris
tersebut.

Sang kakek mengirim Brack Hussein ke sebuah sekolah misionaris. Akan
tetapi, setelah lulus sekolah, Barack Hussein tak dapat pekerjaan dan
kembali ke desa beternak kambing di Nyangoma Kogela, desa terpencil
dengan jalan rusak serta berbukit-bukit di Kenya Barat.

Pada usia 18 tahun, Barack Hussein menikahi Kezia. Namun, Barack
Hussein tidak lebih tertarik kepada keluarganya ketimbang politik dan
ekonomi. Minat besarnya ke politik membuat para pemimpin kemerdekaan
Kenya memberi perhatian.

Kemudian ia didorong mendapatkan beasiswa untuk belajar ekonomi di AS
dan kembali ke Kenya setelah kemerdekaan. Pada usia 23 tahun, ia
menuju Universitas di Hawaii. Keluarga mengatakan dia mata keranjang
dan saat di Honolulu, merayu rekan mahasiswi berusia 18 tahun.
Lahirlah Barack Junior pada Agustus 1961.

Dua tahun kemudian Obama Senior harus pindah lagi karena menerima
panggilan belajar di Harvard University, Cambridge. Ia pun
meninggalkan Obama dan istrinya.

Saat itu Ann menjelaskan kepada Obama bahwa ayahnya harus pergi dan
hidup terpisah. Beasiswa tidak mencukupi jika mereka ikut, tetapi
bukan uang yang dikhawatiran. Obama Junior mengatakan, rasisme dari
dua keluarga merusak perkawinan ayah dan ibunya. Di dalam bukunya,
Obama mengatakan ibunya, Ann, yang dipanggil Tut, tidak menginginkan
menantu kulit hitam, sementara kakek Obama di Kenya tidak menginginkan
menantu kulit putih.

Nyatanya Ann menceraikan suaminya setelah ketahuan sudah menikah. Ann
kemudian menikah lagi dengan pria Indonesia, Lolo Soetoro, yang kini
sudah almarhum. Obama pun bercerita mengapa Obama pernah tinggal di
Jakarta.

Ayah Obama kembali ke Kenya dan bertemu keluarga dengan dua anak. Ia
kemudian bekerja sebagai pegawai pemerintah di pemerintahan Presiden
Jomo Kenyatta. Obama Senior kemudian menikah ketiga kalinya sebelum
berangkat ke Kenya. Dengan gaji yang besar, mobil mewah, istri
ketiganya bernama Ruth, seorang guru kulit putih kelahiran AS, turut
bersamanya ke Kenya. Ruth dikenal Obama Senior di Harvard dan menikah
justru di saat Obama Senior masih terikat pernikahan dengan Kezia dan
Ann. Dia juga sudah punya anak dengan Ruth.

Ruth akhirnya meninggalkan Obama Senior setelah berkali-kali mabuk
yang selalu membuatnya berang dan memukuli Ruth secara brutal.
Kebiasaan mabuk membuat Obama Senior akhirnya kehilangan dua kaki
karena tabrakan saat mabuk dan pekerjaannya pun lenyap. Obama Senior
menikah lagi dengan wanita lain dan punya anak satu lagi dan sering
kembali ke rumah sembari mabuk.

Obama Senior hendak menikahi wanita ini, ketika ia mengalami
kecelakaan mobil dan meninggal pada tahun 1982. Saat ini Barack Obama
berusia 21 tahun. Said Hussein Obama (40), sepupu Obama, mengatakan
kepada The Mail, "Jelas, Barack Obama sangat terharu setelah
mengetahui kisah ayahnya."

"Kami meyakinkan Barack bahwa ayahnya adalah seorang yang baik namun
saat itu ia sulit mencocokkan hal itu dengan kebiasaan mabuk dan
perkawinan poligami," kata Said.

"Ayahnya adalah manusia biasa dan tidak bisa diharapkan menjadi
sempurna 100 persen. Sepupu saya (Obama) bingung ketika bertemu
saudara-saudari dari empat ibu berbeda. Namun, sama seperti Afrika
yang merasa aneh dengan kebiasaan Amerika, demikian pula Amerika
bingung melihat kebiasaan Afrika," kata Said.

Jauh dari teladan

Jauh dari figur teladan, Obama merasakan keanehan. Namun, di dalam
bukunya Barack Obama menuliskan hal-hal baik soal Obama Senior.
Misalnya, ia mengatakan bahwa ayahnya kehilangan pekerjaan setelah
bergabung dengan kampanye menentang korupsi.

Salah satu rekan Obama Senior, yang juga sama-sama sering mabuk,
Philip Ochieng Ochieng, mengatakan, kejatuhan Obama Senior adalah
akibat kebiasaan buruknya. Rekan Obama Senior ini seorang penulis.

"Meski menyenangkan, murah hati dan pintar luar biasa, Obama Senior
juga suka mendikte, kejam. Ia kecanduan minuman beralkohol, jatuh
karena kebiasaan pulang ke rumah sembari mabuk setiap malam. Karakter
buruk menunjukkan kelemahan dan menyebabkannya kehilangan pekerjaan,
jatuh miskin dan semua ini makin mengacaukan kepribadiannya," kata
Ochieng.

Ochieng mengenang, setelah duduk sembari minum semalaman dengan
menenggak minuman beralkohol di Hotel Stanley, terkenal di Nairobi,
Obama Senior berang setiap kali Ruth bertanya dari mana saja dia
semalaman.

Ochieng mengenang ucapannya kepada kerabat dekatnya itu. "Kamu membawa
jauh-jauh seorang wanita dan kamu mengacaukan hidupnya. Ini bukan cara
kita." Nasihat ini tidak mempan. Ruth akhirnya menggugat cerai setelah
sebuah pemukulan brutal terulang lagi.

"Obama Senior mengalami kecelakaan parah. Kedua kakinya harus
diamputasi dan diganti dengan kaki palsu dari logam. Obama Senior
sangat arogan saat mengemudi, terutama ketika sedang mabuk. Saya tidak
heran jika ia kecelakaan," kata Ochieng.

Ruth menolak berkomentar soal semua itu saat ditanyai di sebuah
sekolah di Kenya, tempatnya sekarang mengajar. "Saya menikah dengan
bapaknya Barack Obama selama lebih kurang tujuh tahun, ya, Anda bisa
mengatakan Barack Obama adalah anak tiri saya," kata Ruth.

"Obama Senior orang yang sulit. Meski saya menikah tujuh tahun
dengannya, paling lama bertahan dari semua istrinya, namun ia bukan
orang yang selalu berada di dekat saya."

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Postby admin » Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:48 pm

Amazing: Obama Helped Stranded Stranger 20 Years Ago


Oct 05, 2008

The Norwegian newspaper VG has reported a truly amazing story about a newly-wed trying to get to Norway to be with her husband, and the stranger who helped pay an unexpected luggage surcharge. The blog "Leisha's Random Thoughts" has translated the story.

It was 1988, and Mary Andersen was at the Miami airport checking in for a long flight to Norway to be with her husband when the airline representative informed her that she wouldn't be able to check her luggage without paying a 100 surcharge:

When it was finally Mary’s turn, she got the message that would crush her bubbling feeling of happiness.

-You’ll have to pay a 103 dollar surcharge if you want to bring both those suitcases to Norway, the man behind the counter said.

Mary had no money. Her new husband had travelled ahead of her to Norway, and she had no one else to call.

-I was completely desperate and tried to think which of my things I could manage without. But I had already made such a careful selection of my most prized possessions, says Mary.

As tears streamed down her face, she heard a "gentle and friendly voice" behind her saying, "That's okay, I'll pay for her."
Mary turned around to see a tall man whom she had never seen before.

-He had a gentle and kind voice that was still firm and decisive. The first thing I thought was, Who is this man?

Although this happened 20 years ago, Mary still remembers the authority that radiated from the man.

-He was nicely dressed, fashionably dressed with brown leather shoes, a cotton shirt open at the throat and khaki pants, says Mary.

She was thrilled to be able to bring both her suitcases to Norway and assured the stranger that he would get his money back. The man wrote his name and address on a piece of paper that he gave to Mary. She thanked him repeatedly. When she finally walked off towards the security checkpoint, he waved goodbye to her.

Who was the man?

Barack Obama.

Twenty years later, she is thrilled that the friendly stranger at the airport may be the next President and has voted for him already and donated 100 dollars to his campaign:

-He was my knight in shining armor, says Mary, smiling.

She paid the 103 dollars back to Obama the day after she arrived in Norway. At that time he had just finished his job as a poorly paid community worker* in Chicago, and had started his law studies at prestigious Harvard university.

Mary even convinced her parents to vote for him:

In the spring of 2006 Mary’s parents had heard that Obama was considering a run for president, but that he had still not decided. They chose to write a letter in which they told him that he would receive their votes. At the same time, they thanked Obama for helping their daughter 18 years earlier.

And Obama replied:

In a letter to Mary’s parents dated May 4th, 2006 and stamped ‘United States Senate, Washington DC’, Barack Obama writes:

‘I want to thank you for the lovely things you wrote about me and for reminding me of what happened at Miami airport. I’m happy I could help back then, and I’m delighted to hear that your daughter is happy in Norway. Please send her my best wishes. Sincerely, Barack Obama, United States Senator’.

The parents sent the letter on to Mary.

Mary says that when her friends and associates talk about the election, especially when race relations is the heated subject, she relates the story of the kind man who helped out a stranger-in-need over twenty years ago, years before he had even thought about running for high office.

Truly a wonderful story, and something that needs to be passed along in the maelstorm of fear-and-smear politics we are being subjected to right now.

UPDATE: Thanks for the recommends, folks! Also, remember this was 1988, when 100 dollars was quite a bit of money, compared to today's value.

By the way, this would be the perfect antidote to the Smear E-mails going around. If anyone has a good long email chain list, shoot it out, and let it be passed along.
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Postby admin » Fri Dec 05, 2008 12:23 pm

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Folo to Politico's Smith item about Obama Indonesia trip
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CHICAGO--Ben Smith over at Politico has an item about how President-elect Barack Obama told a donor his first international trip will be to Indonesia--a country he lived in as a youth.

Let me add this: at the end of a visit Obama made to several African nations in 2006, I interviewed him with two other reporters and he said then his next big international journey would be in 2007--and he was looking at China, India and Indonesia, ``where ironically I actually have more of a childhood than I do in Kenya.''

That trip, as we know, never happened; Obama caught up in the Democratic presidential primary, never traveled abroad in 2007.
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